Complacency

I just came back from a walk to the beach. I can do that now, living only 500 meters from the water’s edge. It’s certainly not something to be unhappy about ūüôā

20130303_144929[1]What IS something to be unhappy about is my own complacency. I am an extremely busy person, especially lately, but I am fully aware that being busy is NOT the reason I have not written this novel. Fear isn’t either. It all comes down to complacency. I am completely complacent about what is most important to me, about what I work so hard for. Having a job is a means to an end for me, an end which is writing for a living. I will NOT get there by focusing only on my back up plan life, waiting for it to be perfect or to slow down before writing these books.

On a walk to the beach today, I picked up a rock which the ocean had smoothed into a shape I was morbidly fascinated by. It has now been brought home, imperfectly graffitied  and will sit here haunting me into action.

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Complacency, be gone!

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And here I was thinking ‘slashes’ were just kinky fan fiction match ups

But alas, there are other slashes in our lives. Those who pursue multiple careers.

I recently finished reading a book called One Person/Multiple Careers: A new model for work/life success by Marci Alboher. I tell you what I was impressed. Impressed and relieved. Turns out I am not just being a bratty Gen Y-er for not wanting just one thing in life, hundreds of people do it, many of them one or two generations older than Gen Y.

I think one of the key parts of this whole concept, for me at least, is the fact that I have no desire to climb any corporate ladder. I just want to be good at what I do and enjoy what I do, taking it as far as a choose. I want to know, at the end of my life, that I tried alot of things, that I was truly happy, not just happy enough, and that I contributed something to the world, one way or another.

The same can be said for most successful slashes, who do so many things well. The most common of all slashes, of course, are working mothers. I want to acknowledge that and go further and say that they are probably among the hardest working of the slashes. But they are not the only ones. In this book I read about a lawyer/film maker, a real estate agent/professional french horn player and a pilates instructor/art consultant. I actually heard about multiple careerers a few years ago, in an article which listed a biology researcher/butterfly breeder (for weddings etc) and a lawyer/secondhand wedding dress dealer. And then there are people in my own life. My colleague balances professional work with her role in a string quartet, others balance day jobs with party planning or demonstration work they truly love such as Thermomix or Tupperware. Still more run their own minor craft businesses on Etsy or create custom artwork alongside retail employment¬†and¬†parenting. Some choose to have two careers, some ¬†have no choice as the finances demand it, others are using their ‘base’ career to support the early days of their ‘dream’ career.

This bodes so well with me! I envisage so many things I want to do with my life. My interests change frequently and I can’t imagine myself tied to one path for the rest of my life! I have already professionally worked in HR and Communications, I now work in Industrial Relations. My biggest, most pulling goal in life is to write teen or young adult fiction, and I would also love to start my own business, somehow related to sewing or tea. I would love to return to uni to study something completely different such as biology or teaching. There is every chance, with more experience, I could become a consultant in the IR field, tailoring my work hours to suit my needs. I would also love the opportunity to return to communications, or try public relations, journalism, or freelance writing.

Anyone who feels this way should read this book. It provides many examples as to the different lives slashes lead. You will come across real tips and¬†guidance¬†to making a slash life work. The prose is a blend of anecdotes and case study. A number of reviews I read of this book seemed to decry the lack of point by point guidance as to how to become a slash, but as every case will be different I don’t think this was possible¬†or¬†necessary. If you read the stories, you can extrapolate alot of meaning and advice and when I finished reading I felt no question went unanswered.

Most importantly, this book made me feel less flighty and more capable of one day achieving an exciting and rewarding balance of multiple careers. It also was a good reminder that in order for my future vision to work I need to be solidly good at my base career before I take the leap into any new one. This was valuable advice to counter the risk that inherently comes when first attempting to slash.

Absolutely a great read and at a great time in my life. Highly recommended!

Goals have been made.

After all my talk about prioritisation in the previous post, as well as some whining on my sewing blog about lack of motivation, I sat down and mapped out my goals at the moment in every meaningful part of my life. I then blogged about them on my general blog, here:

http://perpetualnarrative.wordpress.com/2012/04/29/firing-up-the-s-m-a-r-t-way/

The writing goals?

  1. Develop a strong plot
  2. Write up detailed characters
  3. Start interlinking long term plot points
  4. Write short stories
  5. Do more reading
  6. Blog through it, read other writer blogs for inpiration

Timeframes: 1 and 2 I want to achieve by June 2013. Number 3 is intertwined with that and 4, 5 and 6 are ongoing.

Onward and upward! ūüôā